Thoughts for Life - 3

• Many communication problems are due to the reason that we don't listen to understand. We listen only to reply...

• There is nothing more unequal than the equal treatment of unequal people.

• Tough times never last, tough people do.

• Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you everywhere .

• "Courage is the discovery that you may not win, and trying when you know you can lose." ~ Tom Krause

• In order to succeed,  your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure.

•        The Day we start Taking Complete Responsibility of Ourselves.
         The Day we Stop Making Excuses.!
        That's the Day We Start our Journey to Success.
•       Share winning experiences with youngsters, as they can follow you,
        Share the losing experience with elders, as they can guide you.
• Don't educate your children to be rich.
  Educate them to be Happy.
  So when they grow up they will know the value of things not the price
• "Eat your food as your medicines.
  Otherwise you have to eat medicines as your food"
• जो अमृत पीते हैं उन्हें देव कहते हैं,
   और जो विष पीते हैं उन्हें देवों के देव
   "महादेव" कहते हैं ... !!!
  
    ॐ नमः शिवाय 
  
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   भोलेनाथ आपकी सारी मनोकामनाएं पूर्ण करे.....
   ॐ नमः शिवाय

From One Student To Another: How To Leave A Lasting Impression And Not A Footprint

Manager of student engagement at Simon Fraser University`s (SFU) Beedie School of Business, Sam Thiara, introduced his keynote address at the Downtown Vancouver campus by taking the audience back to a distant memory that proved to be far-reaching as it inspired him to speak before us that day.

Thiara recalled walking along the beachside in Tofino, B.C on an early morning. He came to a single set of footprints and began to ponder about the person that they belonged to. "What is this person's story?" Thiara wondered. The thoughts that stirred in his head about this mystery person were cut short with the realization that the individual's footprints would be washed away tomorrow. The importance of leaving a lasting impression and not just a footprint became apparent to him.

Similar to the widened eyes of kids who look at the world for the very first time, making our mark entails inspiring individuals to see the world for the very first time as well, though in a different light. To do this, we have to know who we really are. We have to build confidence in our character and exude this to those around us. To ultimately do this and leave a lasting impression, Thiara contends that there are four elements worth paying attention to:

Vision:

To plan for the journey ahead, we need to utilize our ability to see and envision the direction we are going in. In present times, students have the unique opportunity to choose from multiple paths to take. Though this is worthwhile, it can also be stifling for students. Instead of viewing it as an all-encompassing single task, break it down into pieces. "Find five things that build who you are. A house is built on a foundation; these five things are your foundation. Once you do, it's an unbelievable, euphoric feeling", said Thiara. Once you realize the qualities that comprise who you are and what's important to you, a direction that fits will naturally follow.

Choices:

There are many choices that life will throw at you, from the everyday to the life-altering. Thiara asserts that if you do not make decisions about the choices to make, people around you will do it for you. We need to take that next step in the dark ourselves instead of being pushed forward by external forces. If we were to take a risk and do this, it would be comforting to know that it was a decision attributed to ourselves and not anyone else.

Limitations:

Avoid using words like shouldn't, can't and won't. If you already have your mind set on being incapable of accomplishing a goal, it's going to happen. You are in control of whether or not there are barriers that limit your opportunities. If you decide that nothing will stand in your way, you will be an unstoppable force.

Persistence:

Set realistic expectations and preserve in pursuit of it. If things don't go as expected, don't lose your momentum. Realize that there are other opportunities available to you in taking a side path. Furthermore, there's always going to be people who tell you what you can or cannot do. Disregard the white noise and instead, be selective in your hearing. Pay more attention to those people who encourage you and will take you where you need to go.

Thiara went on to elaborate on the 15-70-15 rule. According to this, 15% of students don't care who he is, another 15% of students are involved in student affairs and extra-curricular activities, while the remaining 70% are really busy but want to get involved. If you aren't part of the 15% that are engaging themselves, get involved. If you do, the number of people you meet will exponentially increase. Coupled with Thiara's advice, this will in turn, increase the likelihood of leaving a lasting impression and not a footprint.

9 Interesting Confusions :s

9 Interesting Confusions :s

1. Can you cry under water? 8-|

2. Do fishes ever get thirsty? :s

3. Why don't birds fall of trees when they sleep? /:)

4. Why is it called building, when it is already built? :/

5. When they say dogs food is new and improved, who tastes it? =))

6. If money doesnt grow on trees then why do banks have branches? :x

7. Why does round pizza come in a square box? :p

8. Why doesnt glue stick 2 its bottle? :>

9. "I Love You" is not a question thn why does it need an answer? :O=)) ! !

I'VE LEARNED THAT........

I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change. I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. The same goes for true love. I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned that you can keep going long after you can't.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.

I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.

I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up. I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel. I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have. I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them, and less to do with how many years you have lived.

I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.

I've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.

I've learned that two people can look at the same thing and see something totally different.

I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you.

I've learned that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you you will find the strength to help.

I've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I've learned that the people you care about most in life are sometimes taken from you too soon

I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.

I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people just don't care back.

I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.

I've learned that it's not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts

I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.

I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.

I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.

I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't.

I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.

I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I've learned that learning to forgive takes practice.

I've learned that there are people who love you dearly, but just don't know how to show it.

I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.

I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

Nice Thoughts

Never say goodbye when you still want to try , never give up when you still feel you can take it, never say you don't love that person anymore when you can't let go.

There are things you love to hear but you would never hear it from the person from whom you would like to hear it, but don't be deaf to hear it from the person who says it with his heart.

Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they'll love you back, don't expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their hearts but if it doesn't, be content it grew in yours.

The best kind of friend is the one you could sit on a porch, and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like that was the best conversation you've had.

A sad thing about life is when you meet someone that means a lot to you, only to find out in the end, that it was never bound to be and you just have to let go.

Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, the romance - and you find out you still care for that person.

Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we should know how to be grateful for that gift.

If you love yourself, you will be surprised: others will love you. Nobody loves a person who does not love himself.

If you cannot even love yourself, who else is going to take the trouble.

Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be, cause you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want in life.

 

No one makes a lock without a key. That's why God won't give you problems without solutions.

Discussion is always better than argument, Because argument is to find out who is right...! Discussion is to find out what is right..

. . . when it comes down to it, that’s what life is all about: showing up for the people you love, again and again, until you can’t show up anymore.

Oh, earth, you're too wonderful for anybody to realize you.

Difficulties in your life
do not come to destroy you,


but to realise your hidden
POTENTIAL and POWER.


Let the difficulties know that
you too are difficult.

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Height of Facebook update: "suhaag raat hai, ghunghat utha raha hoon mai!" 45 likes, AND 1 comment - "keep on updating we are online" ;) 

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Fantastic Words By Chetan Bhagat "Work hard, but make time 4 ur luv, frnz and family. Bcoz Nobody remembers Powerpoint presentations,marks n degrees on ur death..

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Kisi Ko Khareed Na Mere Bas Mein Nahi,

Ae Dosto, Meri Saadgi Dekh Kar Log Khud Hi Bik Jaate Hai.!! :-)

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An Excellent Thought About Life - Listen to Everyone and Learn from Everyone Because Nobody knows Everything but Everyone knows Something.!:)
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"Best message to think upon:- If u don't act naugty while you are young.. You won't have anything to smile about when you are older...:-)"

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Adhure Milan Ki Aas Hai Zindagi, Sukh-Dukh Ka Ehsaas Hai Zindagi, Fursat Mile Toh Khwabon Me Aaya Karein, Aapke Bina Badi Udaas Hai Zindagi.

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Khub Nahi Bahut KHUBSURT Ho Tum Mere DIL Me Thi Wo MURAT Ho Tum Mile The 1 AJNBEE Bankar Lekin Aaj Mere DIL ki ZARURT Ho Tum
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Barsat ki raat 1 bhigi ladki bhiga badan bhigi zulfe bhige hoth bighe kapde dekh kar is dhadakte dil ne kaha. SALi 100% Bimar Padegi.

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4 ghante gf ka wait krne k bad ladke ne arz kia.... intehaan ho gae intezaar ki. . . . . . . . . maa ki aaaankhh aise pyaar ki..!! :D ;)

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Later the bus longer the queue,
Later the bus longer the queue,
Shorter the skirt awesome the view . . . . . ;-D

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle...

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 cups of coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous "yes."

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

"Now," said the professor, as the laughter subsided, " I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.

“The golf balls are the important things -- your God, family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions -- things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

“The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car.

“The sand is everything else -- the small stuff.

"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

“Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play with your children.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.
Play another 18.
There will always be time to clean the house and ‘fix the disposal’.

“Take care of the golf balls first -- the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand."

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.

The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend."

Jokes - 1

A Lady On Phone:
"Hello Minesh? Sir, I want to Meet & Talk To You.
You Are The Father Of One Of My Kids."
Stunned and shocked Man screamed:
"Oh my God! I am married and so careful with modern prevention tactics and
how could this happen to you? You can ruin me"
Are you Soni?
Lady replied, "No."
Then Pramila?
No, No.
Mita?
No, No, No
Rupali?
No, No, No, No.
Sunita?
No, No, No, No, No.
Kamali?
No...........................................................oo.
Lady in confusion scolded Minesh:
"Sir, I am The Class Teacher Of Your Son."

 

Wife: Jaanu kash aap sms hote, mai apko save karti, jab chahe padhti
Husband: kanjoos save hi karke rakhti ya apni kisi saheli ko forward bhi karti?

 

Dr. Mallya - lets play the Ambulance game !!
Air hostess - how do u play!??
Mallya - I run my fingers up your legs & you say Red Light when you want me 2 STOP ....
Air Hostess - ok !!
After few seconds .... Red Light ! Red Light ! Red Light !
Mallya - Ambulances don't stop at Red Lights baby !!!

 

Married men's true story:-
Maang bharne ki saza kuch
is kadar paa raha hu...
Ki MAANG puri karte
karte hi mara jaa raha hu... :D

 

Husband Throwing Darts

At His Wife’s Photo And

Not Even A Single One

Hitting The Target..

From Another Room Wife

Called The Husband :

“Honey What Are You

Doing..

*Husband “MISSING

YOU”.

 

 

I walked into my house to find my wife gone and a note nailed to the wall.
'We have your wife, if you want to see her alive again we want £500,000. Do not contact the police, we are very determined. Await a phone call.'
They weren't joking about being determined, I've had 36 missed calls from them now.

 

 

Santa ko Ladies Garments Shop main Salesman ki naukri mili.
Ek ladki aayi aur boli: Underwear dikhao.
Santa [sharmate huye]: Aaj nahi pehna !

 

 

Interviewer:There are 50 bricks on an aeroplane. If u drop 1 outside. How many are left?
Applicant:That's easy, 49.
Interviewer:What are the three steps to put an elephant into a fridge?
Applicant:Open the fridge. Put the elephant in. Close the fridge.
Interviewer : What are the four steps to put a deer into the fridge?
Applicant:Open the fridge. Take the elephant out. Put the deer in. Close the fridge.
Interviewer:It's lion's birthday, all animals are there except one, why?
Applicant :Because the deer is in the fridge.
Interviewer:How does an old woman cross a swamp filled with crocodiles?
Applicant :She just crosses it because the crocodiles are at the lion's birthday.
Interviewer:Last question. In the end the old lady still died. Why?
Applicant: Sir, I guess she drowned?
Interviewer: No! She was hit by the brick fallen form the aeroplane. You may leave now..!! ;)

 

 

A golfer accidentally overturned his cart.
Elizabeth, a "beautiful" real golfer who lived in a villa on the golf
course heard the noise and yelled over to him.
"Hey, are you okay, what's your name?"
"Dan," he replied.
"Dan forget your troubles. Come to my villa, rest up and I'll help you get the cart up later."
"That's mighty nice of you," Dan answered, "but I don't think my wife would like it."
"Aw come on," Elizabeth insisted.
She was very pretty and persuasive.
"Well okay," Dan finally agreed, And added, "but my wife won't like it."
After a hearty drink AND sexy driving and putting lessons, Dan thanked his host.
"I feel a lot better now, but I know my wife is going to be real upset."
"Don't be foolish!" Elizabeth said with a smile , she wont know anything.
By the way, where is she?"
Dan Replied, .................."Under the cart!"

 

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A woman went shopping, At cash counter she opened her purse to pay. The cashier noticed a TV remote in her purse. He cud'nt control his curiosity n asked "Do u always carry ur TV remote with u?" She replied " No, not always, but my husband refused to accompany me for shopping today..


 The story continues....
 The shopkeeper laughs and takes back all the items that lady had purchased.
 Shocked at this act, she asks the shopkeeper what is he doing. He said your husband has blocked your credit card.
 MORAL : Respect the hobbies of your husband. 😆

 Story continues....
 Wife took out his husbands credit card from purse and uses it to clear all the bills. Unfortunately he didn't block his own card.
 Moral:...... Dont underestimate the power of a WIFE.

Thoughts & Quotes - 1

"The only man who behaved sensibly was my tailor; he took my measurement anew every time he saw me, while all the rest went on with their old measurements and expected them to fit me." -- George Bernard Shaw

"I Can Calculate Everything, Even The Velocity Of Light.
But I Cannot Calculate The Hate Of The People Behind Their SMILE ... !!!" --- Albert Einstein

You Don't Need To Be Super Nice Always To Everyone..
Sometimes Its Good To Show The Bad Of You..
So You Can Sort out Who Can Accept You Even
At Your Worst Mood And Bad Times !

Patient: Doctor, is there anything worse than being old and bent?
Doctor: Yes there is - being young and broke.

A perfect relationship is when :
You fight like a married couple
Talk like best friends
Flirt like first lovers...

Excellent one by God...
Some one Asked to God-"If everything is already written in destiny, then why should we wish ?
God smiled and said -: Maybe I had written -"AS YOU WISH"

Too many people, spend money, they have earned, to buy things they don't want, to impress people they don't like.

NO and YES are d words needed a deep thought...
Most of d Troubles in life r d result of saying YES too early or NO too late...

A man is not finished when he is defeated....He is finished when he quits....

Be sufficient brave to try and possibly making mistakes. Disappointment, defeat, and despair are the tools God uses to show us the way.

"Unless commitment is made,
there are only promises and hopes, but no plans"

I always worried someone would notice me, and then when no one did, I felt lonely.

What is the point of being alive if you don't at least try to do something remarkable?

Make your mistakes, take your chances, look silly, but keep on going. Don’t freeze up.

Folks want to glow, to leave their worries and dead skin behind.

 Life is mostly froth and bubble,
Two things stand like stone.
Kindness in another's trouble,
Courage in your own.

Psychiatrists vs. Bartenders

Psychiatrists vs. Bartenders
EVER SINCE I WAS A CHILD, I'VE ALWAYS HAD A FEAR OF SOMEONE UNDER MY BED AT NIGHT. SO I WENT TO A SHRINK AND TOLD HIM:
'I've got problems. Every time I go to bed I think there's somebody under it.I'm scared. I think I'm going crazy.'
'Just put yourself in my hands for one year,' said the shrink. 'Come talk to me three times a week andwe should be able to get rid of those fears..'
'How much do you charge?'
'Eighty dollars per visit,' replied the doctor.
'I'll sleep on it,' I said.
Six months later the doctormet me on the street. 'Whydidn't you come to see meabout those fears you werehaving?' he asked.
'Well, Eighty bucks a visit three times a week for a year is an awful lot of money! A bartender cured me for $10. I was so happyto have saved all that money that I went and bought me a new pickup!'
'Is that so!' With a bit of anattitude he said, 'and how, may I ask, did a bartender cure you?'
'He told me to cut the legsoff the bed! - Ain't nobodyunder there now!!!'
FORGET THE SHRINKS...
HAVE A DRINK & TALK TOA BARTENDER!