Manager of student engagement at Simon Fraser University`s (SFU) Beedie School of Business, Sam Thiara, introduced his keynote address at the Downtown Vancouver campus by taking the audience back to a distant memory that proved to be far-reaching as it inspired him to speak before us that day.
Thiara recalled walking along the beachside in Tofino, B.C on an early morning. He came to a single set of footprints and began to ponder about the person that they belonged to. "What is this person's story?" Thiara wondered. The thoughts that stirred in his head about this mystery person were cut short with the realization that the individual's footprints would be washed away tomorrow. The importance of leaving a lasting impression and not just a footprint became apparent to him.
Similar to the widened eyes of kids who look at the world for the very first time, making our mark entails inspiring individuals to see the world for the very first time as well, though in a different light. To do this, we have to know who we really are. We have to build confidence in our character and exude this to those around us. To ultimately do this and leave a lasting impression, Thiara contends that there are four elements worth paying attention to:
Vision:
To plan for the journey ahead, we need to utilize our ability to see and envision the direction we are going in. In present times, students have the unique opportunity to choose from multiple paths to take. Though this is worthwhile, it can also be stifling for students. Instead of viewing it as an all-encompassing single task, break it down into pieces. "Find five things that build who you are. A house is built on a foundation; these five things are your foundation. Once you do, it's an unbelievable, euphoric feeling", said Thiara. Once you realize the qualities that comprise who you are and what's important to you, a direction that fits will naturally follow.
Choices:
There are many choices that life will throw at you, from the everyday to the life-altering. Thiara asserts that if you do not make decisions about the choices to make, people around you will do it for you. We need to take that next step in the dark ourselves instead of being pushed forward by external forces. If we were to take a risk and do this, it would be comforting to know that it was a decision attributed to ourselves and not anyone else.
Limitations:
Avoid using words like shouldn't, can't and won't. If you already have your mind set on being incapable of accomplishing a goal, it's going to happen. You are in control of whether or not there are barriers that limit your opportunities. If you decide that nothing will stand in your way, you will be an unstoppable force.
Persistence:
Set realistic expectations and preserve in pursuit of it. If things don't go as expected, don't lose your momentum. Realize that there are other opportunities available to you in taking a side path. Furthermore, there's always going to be people who tell you what you can or cannot do. Disregard the white noise and instead, be selective in your hearing. Pay more attention to those people who encourage you and will take you where you need to go.
Thiara went on to elaborate on the 15-70-15 rule. According to this, 15% of students don't care who he is, another 15% of students are involved in student affairs and extra-curricular activities, while the remaining 70% are really busy but want to get involved. If you aren't part of the 15% that are engaging themselves, get involved. If you do, the number of people you meet will exponentially increase. Coupled with Thiara's advice, this will in turn, increase the likelihood of leaving a lasting impression and not a footprint.
